Sermons
Session 2: A Man of God is a Man of Character
Key Passage: 1 Thessalonians 2:1-6
1 Thessalonians 2:4-5 (NASB 1995) "but just as we have been approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel, so we speak, not as pleasing men, but God who examines our hearts. For we never came with flattering speech, as you know, nor with a pretext for greed—God is witness."
1. Introduction
Paul's ministry among the Thessalonians reveals his deep character, formed and refined by trials and opposition. Paul’s journey was far from easy; he faced slander, persecution, and physical hardships. Yet he remained unwavering in his purpose, with his character proving itself in both his message and his actions. True character in a man of God isn’t merely outward behavior but is rooted in a heart transformed by Christ. This transformation brings forth godly qualities that withstand pressures, temptations, and opposition, just as Paul’s life demonstrates.
Defining Character: Biblical character involves steadfastness, purity, and commitment, arising from a heart that belongs to God. The Holy Spirit cultivates such qualities within those who seek God wholeheartedly, and these become evident in how a man lives, speaks, and interacts with others.
2. Character Qualities of a Man of God
Each quality in Paul’s life provides a model for the men of God today. Through examining his life, we see what it means to live with integrity and boldness for Christ.
Courage
Paul’s courage is a striking mark of his ministry. Despite facing threats, Paul boldly preached the gospel, trusting God to protect and empower him.
- Scripture Reference: Philippians 1:20 (NASB 1995) "according to my earnest expectation and hope, that I will not be put to shame in anything, but that with all boldness, Christ will even now, as always, be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death."
- Application: In today’s world, men face pressure to compromise their faith for social or workplace acceptance. Courage is needed to stand for biblical truth, whether in moral decisions, sharing the gospel, or addressing issues in family and community.
Integrity
Paul’s life demonstrated purity of motive. He acted not for personal gain or hidden agendas but for the gospel’s sake, with honesty and transparency.
- Scripture Reference: Proverbs 11:3 (NASB 1995) "The integrity of the upright will guide them, but the crookedness of the treacherous will destroy them."
- Application: Integrity is foundational in every area of life. Men are called to uphold integrity in their work ethic, in honesty in relationships, and in maintaining personal holiness. This requires self-examination, prayer, and accountability.
God-Focused
Paul’s motivation stemmed from a desire to please God, not people. His ministry did not seek popularity but sought to glorify God above all.
- Scripture Reference: Galatians 1:10 (NASB 1995) "For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a bond-servant of Christ."
- Application: The pursuit of human approval is a common pitfall. Men of God must prioritize God’s approval, embracing the hard truths of Scripture and allowing the Holy Spirit to transform their motives to align with God's will rather than cultural acceptance.
Lovingly Forthright
Paul was not only bold but also gentle, combining truth with love. His love for the Thessalonians led him to speak truth directly but with compassion.
- Scripture Reference: Ephesians 4:15 (NASB 1995) "but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ."
- Application: Men are called to communicate both truth and love, balancing firmness with kindness. In family leadership, friendships, and church, it’s important to be honest and direct yet gentle, seeking others’ good above one’s own pride or comfort.
Contentedness
Paul’s life exemplified freedom from greed and personal ambition. He served out of a pure heart, untouched by worldly gain or status.
- Scripture Reference: 1 Timothy 6:6-8 (NASB 1995) "But godliness actually is a means of great gain when accompanied by contentment. For we have brought nothing into the world, so we cannot take anything out of it either."
- Application: Contentment is a rare but necessary quality. In a world driven by materialism, men are called to find sufficiency in God. True contentment comes from trusting in God’s provision, resisting the envy and desire for possessions that distract from spiritual growth.
Humility
Paul, though a powerful figure in the early church, remained humble, recognizing that his strength and success came from God alone.
- Scripture Reference: Philippians 2:3-4 (NASB 1995) "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others."
- Application: Humility is essential for godly leadership, whether within the family, church, or community. Men must serve with a recognition that God is the source of their authority and strength. True humility enables men to lead effectively by serving others with a selfless heart.
3. Conclusion & Reflection
The qualities seen in Paul’s life were not just moral ideals; they were the fruit of the Holy Spirit’s work within him. As men pursue godly character, they display the evidence of a heart submitted to Christ, impacting every relationship, decision, and sphere of influence.
Discussion Questions:
- Personal Reflection: Which of these qualities do you find most challenging?
This question prompts introspection, helping men identify areas needing growth and opening up pathways for mutual encouragement.
- Group Encouragement: How can we encourage each other in cultivating godly character?
Here, the emphasis is on building a supportive brotherhood. Christian character is refined in community, with men holding each other accountable and encouraging each other to pursue God wholeheartedly.
- Personal Reflection: What character qualities of a man of God do you lack? How can you work on developing those qualities?
In reflecting on these attributes, may men be inspired to seek the transformative power of God in their lives, allowing His Spirit to shape them into men of true, unshakeable character.